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Lullabies, it would seem, aren’t just for babies.
Some of Sally Ellyson’s fondest childhood memories, however, are the lullabies that her parents sang to her.
So as an adult, and at the encouragement of her own son, she enlisted the help of a friend in the music business to help her create a tape of those special songs to hand out to her friends with babies of their own.
Everyone was so moved by the sweetness of her voice that they encouraged her to pursue a career - or at least a hobby - of singing, and she dutifully promised that she would.
Her son, however, wouldn’t let those promises go unfulfilled and hounded her to look for some venues in which to sing. Finally, one day she picked up a two-week old Village Voice and answered an ad looking for a female vocalist. A trio of songwriters č Dan Meese, Gary Maurer and Steve Curtis č had been working on a batch of songs but none of them had the vocal skills they were looking for. They had placed the ad in the Voice, had received about 200 demo tapes from singers, none of them what they were looking for, and the ad had expired when Ellyson called Messe, who told her to send in a demo.
“I didn’t have a demo,” she said. “I was just trying to keep my promise that I’d do something to pursue singing.”
What she did have, however, was the tape of lullabies, but she only had one copy. So she took it over to Messe’s house and had him dub it.
Messe, who not having heard her sing wasn’t exactly thrilled about adding to the collection and probably wouldn’t even have listened to her tape. But he when he dubbed it, he left his copy in the tape machine, and a few days later accidentally pressed play and was amazed at what he heard.
“I couldn’t believe that voice existed,” he said. “We all sort of felt like it was ‘The Wizard of Oz,’ like the exact right person showed up at the exact right time to get us home.”
“I think their songs had a similar essence as the lullaby tape,” Ellyson said. “We draw from the same well.
“I don’t feel comfortable singing over the top,” she said, “but their songs are deep and strong, have sentiments. I sing in a way that feels like I’m holding them gently.”
Although they weren’t really making an album to become a band, they became one anyway, and seven years and three albums later, Hem has developed a large and loyal audience, playing with Elvis Costello, Beth Orton and Wilco, among others, and playing prestigious venues such as Jazz at Lincoln Center.
I dug up this column from Oct. 25, 2002 to show a friend, so thought I'd go ahead and post it here.
Sometimes it seems that we’re doing little more than running in place - always on the move, always involved, but apparently accomplishing little, waiting for something to happen.
A friend was trying to get me to help her make some sense of it recently over a tall sip of suds, and I remembered a passage from a book by Joseph Campbell, the late expert on mythology, in which he describes how rituals are sometimes designed to lull us into a higher state of awareness. He wrote, specifically, about primitive festivals lasting several days, a frenzy of dance and drum that would end in a sacrifice, sometimes a human sacrifice.
Campbell says that a ritual is the acting out of a myth. We can see it in some of our own religious practices, though our ceremonies rarely last more than a couple of hours and hardly ever involve human sacrifice - although taking marriage vows involves self-sacrifice for the sake of the union.
Consider how taking communion symbolically re-enacts Christ’s last meal to provoke a meditation on his resurrection. If we’re lucky and in the moment, we might achieve a moment of enlightenment.
Indeed, there’s a deep and enduring relationship between ritual and spiritual awakening, and it’s hard to imagine having a moment of the latter without the former.
“Ritual” is, etymologically-speaking, embedded in “spiritual.” “Spiritual” comes from the Latin noun “spiritus,” or ‘breath.” “Ritual” comes from the Latin “ritus,” which means the same thing, a ceremony. Both words share the comes from the Greek for “to fit,” which is also the root word for “arithmetic.”
(Oddly enough, tracing it further back to the proto-Indo-European word “arete,” which means “virtue” or “qualilty,” we can also see the root emerge in our words “art” and “right.” Words are wondrous things, aren”t they?)
Consider how much of our lives are spent in routine activities, things we can do with our eyes closed and our minds on other things. If you’re like me, you can play the tape of the first hour of this morning and not be able to distinguish it from every other morning of your life. It sounds boring - and it is - but either in spite of the boredom or because of it, I get some of my best ideas in the most mundane situations, while showering or exercising, for instance.
A great novel on this topic is “Something Happened,” by Joseph Heller, his first book after the classic “Catch 22.” For several hundred pages, nothing happens, and the only thing keeping us interested is the promise of the title and the beautiful way Heller describes the fears, jealousies and joys of the narrator’s life.
And so, I tried to assure my friend, that perhaps by leading lives of quiet, mind-numbing routine, we’re simply preparing ourselves for some great spiritual awakening, but we won’t know what that is unless we tend to the grind of maintaining a home and a family and a job and a church and a body and a car and so on.
If it seems as though we’re simply running a treadmill, then maybe we need to imagine ourselves in a giant hamster wheel generating enoromous amounts of energy to power something.
But so what? That’s the key, and something for each of us to decide on our own.
Our lives are like great novels and myths in that the narrative itself is not as important as the meaning we derive from it.
A version of this column originally appeared in the JournalNews, Hamilton, Ohio, on Oct. 25, 2002.
This just in:
CHICAGO (AFP) - Fried Coke has become the latest artery-clogging hit at US state fairs, local media reports.
I guess Americans will eat anything as long as it's deep fried.
The gooey Coke-battered nuggets topped with cola syrup won the "most creative" title at the Texas state fair in Dallas last month. Since then, the deep-fried phenomenon has spread to North Carolina and Arizona.
"We've been getting calls from everywhere since we introduced it," Elizabeth Martin, a spokeswoman for the North Carolina fair, told the Dallas Morning News. "Everyone wants to know where they can get it."
Fried treats are as big of a draw at state fairs as the rides and prize-winning farm animals. Twinkies, cookies and even pickles are stuck with a stick, dipped in batter and then seared in the deep fryer.
Fried Coke's inventor, concessionaire Abel Gonzales Jr., is a creative fryer whose experiments have proven popular. Last year he sold 20,000 fried peanut butter, jelly and banana sandwiches, the Morning News reported. Fried Coke looks to be an even bigger hit: he sold 16,000 cups of the sticky balls in the first two weeks of the fair, which runs through Oct. 22.
Gonzales has also had more success with changing his recipe than Coca Cola did. He reworked the recipe to make the dough less cakey and more spongy so it would soak up more of the cola syrup.
"They were good before, but they are even better now," Gonzales said.

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